Kalindi states that we need to situate ourselves in the deepest part of our heart and from there we live and transform and share the love of God. The more we live in the deepest part of our heart we will feel the pain that is also there. There will be many tears to wash away the pain. The tears will open up the longing and in the longing we will feel separation, and this separation causes us to feel more longing and thus, more tears.