Kalindi talks about how many people are in so much pain in this world and that to take your life in an attempt to get out of this pain is not an answer to getting free of pain. If you take your life the physical body will be gone, but the subtle body will continue on. This subtle body will have to face everything you were destined to go through in this lifetime. It will do so in a place where there are no buffers to the pain. Yo have to face it straight on, so it is actually more difficult to face these things if you are not in a physical body.