Kalindi tells us that there is a concept going on that is keeping everyone from actually feeling the love of God – or any love. The concept is, How am I supposed to look? “How am I supposed to be?” etc. It creates a false way of being. It is not allowing you to be the way that you really are and the way that you really feel. I’m talking about acting and behaving in a manner that is not even true to your self. Always just keep being real and normal, and from there you will change. You don’t have to put on an act.