Kalindi differentiates between sex in the material world and sexual energy which is an aspect divine love. Kalindi tells us that once our true selves start to emerge on the material plane, pure sexual energy comes into the body. This sexual energy can be confused with lust and get mixed up with sex. She explains that lust is fine but that love, care and respect must still be present. In this talk, Kalindi provides tangible guidance about sex, dating and controlling lust. She also describes how partners in a committed relationship can still remain open to desire, yet continue to show love, care and respect with a focus on forward movement for each person in the relationship.