The three related topics Kalindi discusses are what people are doing to avoid the work on their spiritual path. The first is to come up with the right question to ask in the area you want answers for. You are afraid of what the answer might be, so you avoid the right question. The second is to allow God’s entry and it is fear that is stopping you. The third area is that practically no one likes change, so you maintain stasis in your life in order to try and be comfortable.